Thursday, September 03, 2026
a board dinner
I was almost going to talk about Tuesday dinner, but we're deeper into the week than I thought, and it's Wednesday dinner, not Tuesday. A simple dinner at that - a board of items to graze on while we continued on Cougar Town. But I was pleased with how I composed it. Nice job, Peter.
Wednesday, September 02, 2026
hard to believe, I know
Remember how I sprained my ankle back in May? It's still not 100%, I have to admit. It held me back from swimming through the summer, or at least that was my excuse. In truth, it's just so easy to not exercise once you stop exercising. Re-starting is an effort.
So it is that my fitful (at best), wildly-inconsistent swimming resumed this morning before work. The pool at the Rose Bowl sparkled in the sun,
and it wasn't at all too hot a day for it. I got in, I splashed, I sucked. But I also did more swimming today than I had for over three months, so there.
Tuesday, September 01, 2026
last weekend in August
Wow, September. Where did that come from? A new month, and now just one month to go until the year's big trip. I'm getting a little anxious as well as excited. Plus, if you know me, then you know how important this is: we are closer to Christmas, into a fall month. I played some Christmas-adjacent music in the office today. Shhhh. Our secret.
With the new month ushered in, let's usher out the old one. On with the weekend that was.
Can you predict these weekend recap blog entries by now? Friday night: Maestro. Saturday morning: Amara. Same old, right? Well, be prepared for a shocker. Yes, we did go to Maestro on Friday, but no, we did NOT go to Amara on Saturday. We went on Sunday. What a twist!
But back to Maestro. I asked for the Mezcal Negroni but with the Campari swapped out and Cynar used instead.
I've had that variation before and liked it, so I thought it would be good again. Conrad and I ate lightly, neither of us super hungry. We shared oysters,
we had the grilled octopus dish.
We came home and had a drink and some chocolate and listened to music rather than watch television.
Saturday morning I had a massage booked on the earlier side. As a result, I didn't want to have a breakfast in my belly or a decaf latte making me have to pee. Sorry for that detail, but that's what it was. So we did a morning walk,
and then I headed to massage and grocery shopping. We had invited Van for dinner, that evening, so at a certain point late in the afternoon, I got into the kitchen. I made something of a creole sauce for us, based on recollections of what we used to make at the restaurant. I cooked peeled shrimp in the sauce and served it up for each of us in a bowl with some basmati rice that was pretty much my best ever attempt at cooking rice. Tasty dinner, not pretty for photography. I tried a new cocktail that night (minus the fresh mint leaves I thought I had on hand but did not): the Stone's Throw.
A good one. I'll be making that one again some time. Anyway, after dinner it was an episode of Stanley for us, then Van took Olive home, and the night wound down a little on the late side.
Sunday morning started with a walk,
and then on to Amara.
This time I ordered the breakfast burrito, taking home half of it because it's so substantial.
A decaf latte for me as well.
We came home from that and started in on some stuff for the big trip ahead, getting a few things done. By the end of the afternoon, I was at Van's for a rare Sunday night television date night. A good time: we finished watching the series, Looking, as well as the wrap up movie that was made. Really well done show despite some of our final frustrations with it.
The first two weekends this month will be out-of-town weekends, so the regular, predictable, at-home weekends will be missing for a few weeks from here. They will be back. In the mean time, may the new month be kind to us all.
Monday, August 31, 2026
pasta with scallops
First off: fuck. I write notecards or postcards to friends from time to time, and today I got a response in the mail. I hadn’t heard from Sandra and Wayne in a while, and there is bad reason. Wayne wrote back in response to a card letting me know that Sandra had died last year in July. He had thought he had let me know, and I certainly don’t hold that against him. Cancer, apparently. She was 75. I’d known her over thirty years. So: fuck.
Conrad and I both cried a little. I’m glad we are having an evening in. I was planning a nice meal, and now it feels a little more needed. Squid ink pasta, which I’d been eager to use, tossed with some little bay scallops I found at Trader Joe’s.
A bottle of a New Zealand red Conrad picked up last year from a winery we have visited a few times.
This was welcome.
Goodbye, Sandra.
Friday, August 28, 2026
fourth weekend in August
Most of the week gone, almost the next weekend, the last weekend in August. What better time to check in on the previous weekend, right? And I know, I know. Maestro and Amara again, right, Peter? Well, yes. Unapologetically.
So let's kick it off with the usual: seats at an end of the bar late Friday afternoon/early Friday evening at Maestro.
I did NOT, however, go with the usual drink. A Guayabita for me this time to start with,
followed by a glass of rose.
Sometimes it's good to switch things up! We ate relatively light, given the heat. Oysters to start,
some chicken mole to share.
Did we have queso as well? No photo, but I dimly recall we may have, which totally makes a lie of the eating light. We came home and watched some television, winding down, having a mellow time of it.
Saturday morning there was a mild walk, but yep, Amara. Lattes and a shared burrito (they're pretty filling for one).
Back at home, there was the usual assortment of things to get done, and I added the baking of two banana bread loaves to that list.
Check! They'll make for nice slices some mornings with coffee. By early evening, we were swinging by Bristol Farms and picking up fixings for dinner. Van wanted shrimp cocktails, and we obliged.
I also bought a nice piece of coho salmon and served it atop a warm okra salad and Israeli couscous.
After dinner the guys showed me the photos of their recent road trip, telling me more of the stories. Nice to see. No television after they were done - it was too late for that. We headed to bed.
Sunday morning I didn't get up early for a solo walk despite best intentions. I slept really well, but when I finally got up, I soon heard Conrad. And if Conrad gets up, that means Olive is awake with him. She really loves him. A short walk for the three of us, then a further short walk for me to get some more steps.
Conrad and I had coffee while Van slept in, then the four of us headed off to Starbucks because we weren't quite up for a big breakfast at home. Conrad and I got home around noon, and then it was an afternoon devoted to online happy hour. Sushi and television to finish the day.
That, friends, was a very regular, normal, no-frills weekend for us. Nice one, I have to say.
Thursday, August 27, 2026
pork and cabbage
Another short post, another photo of a dinner I made. Wednesday night dinner at home, accompanied by television and time with Conrad. As tempting as it was to go get sushi again or otherwise go out, we stayed in and I cooked. Pork tenderloin first seared then popped into the oven. A wedge of roasted cabbage each. And a loose puree of cauliflower, onion, and yellow carrot that functioned as starch and sauce both. Nice little meal for a midweek evening.
Wednesday, August 26, 2026
a basic dinner
What a nice, simple, easy Tuesday at home last night. Conrad and I continue to work our way through the series Cougar Town, watching it while we eat dinner. That dinner last night? A basic corn and zucchini risotto with a few sweet Italian sausages. I made the risotto, I only cooked the sausages that I bought from the store. Nothing too fancy, just Tuesday dinner.































