And... we're back home! Earlier than expected as well, I have to say, and hooray for that. Two nights down in Orange County, and now Conrad has to get himself ready to head to Chicago tomorrow morning before most people are up and at 'em. So it's back to Pasadena, a load of laundry on the go, and I'll stay out of his way as he packs.
Orange County. Say what you will about the place, but yeah, it really did feel like a different world down there. In terms of being WASP (because I am, I cannot deny it), yep, it sure was. If it wasn't for the fact that I felt like the fattest man on the beach, I might have felt at home a little. Likely not, but maybe.
Anyway, I shan't slag Newport Beach, really. We had a modest hotel that suited our purposes.
It was easy to walk to the ocean or to the sheltered bay. We didn't dine out beyond Starbucks, so I can't comment on the food, but we poked in some shops that were pleasant, and I ended up buying cards. Because I am always looking to stock up on my cards. I didn't really take photos around town, though. By the ocean there, the marine layer (June Gloom) was prevalent throughout each morning, making for not great photos. And there were a lot of people around. Beachgoers, surfers, shoppers, tourists in general. Accordingly, it was tough to get shots without people in them. Ah well.
The point of the trip wasn't to see Newport Beach, though. The point was the shared birthday celebration for two friends, Jennifer and Traci. And having just typed those names I realize I didn't get photos of them at all. What a funny weekend for photo-taking! Anyway, here's what we did to celebrate:
Friday we met up at a house they were using for the weekend and walked nearby to a place that rents out these little boats called duffies. Twelve-seaters, a table in the middle, a canopy for shade. The party split between two boats and we spent about two hours riding around the inner harbour area. There were refreshments - perhaps too many! - and good conversation.
After the boat ride we returned to the house where a dinner of pizza and meatballs and salad was laid out for us all. Then it was time for the talent show. Yes, the talent show.
The thing we'd kind of been dreading. And look, it was fun in the end, but please don't make people perform for you, I kindly ask you all. Anyway, Van coordinated our talent (and really, this weekend we left a lot of organization to him since it is through him that we know Jennifer and Traci), and he was clever about it. What do we do well? Make cocktails! So he organized all we need for demonstrating how to make Last Words. And that is what we did. Van narrated, Conrad passed me the ingredients, I made the cocktails. We served one each to Jennifer and Traci, then sat back down, happy to be through that and happy to enjoy what the others did. Honestly? I think we kind of kicked butt. ;-)
There weren't Saturday birthday activities until late in the afternoon when we reconvened at the house. There we were asked to write letters on paper that would readily dissolve. One letter was for Jennifer and/or Traci. The other was for the ocean. We would write then all head to the beach

where we would gather in a circle around the two women and read our letters to them aloud. We would then put the letter to them and the ocean into the waves so that they could dissolve there. Most of the party joined in, and it was lovely to do that activity. Interestingly, Conrad and I wrote very similar things, and Van was touched that we drew him into what we wrote to Jennifer and Traci. We were gathered high up the beach, and even so, there was a wave that came roaring far up the beach to not far from us. That scattered folks lower down, sending them scrambling away, but it also scuttled our plans to walk down the surf and let the letters go there. Conrad, every thinking, suggested we set them to float and dissolve in the water of the inner harbour just doors down from the house, and that is what some of us did.
After that came tacos made to order by a crew the hosts had hired. We ate and drank, chatting to a few others (and here I will say shame on the people who withdrew to the living room to watch the basketball game - not my party, so not really my place to say that, but still). Not long after we enjoyed a little homemade cake, we headed back to the hotel. Most of the party reconvened this morning to head to brunch, but we passed on that. I did a 4.33 mile walk,
part of it with Conrad. Starbucks, packing, and then it was home.
So then, happy 60th (3 X 20, get it?)(that was their way of expressing it, not mine!) to Jennifer and Traci. I hope they had a blast! Now then, what shall I do when I get to that in a handful of years...?